Keep calm! And baby will!

 HOW DO I KNOW WHAT TO DO? 





I love to read books and among them books about kids and kids psychology and I'm reading one now. It's pretty strange book as for me, author uses too modern language (in Russian - Людмила Петрановская. Тайная опора. Привязанность в жизни ребенка) which doesn't even exist now but still it has some very good thoughts in it and I'll put here 2 things that really helped me to understand my child better!


 MOM GOT BROKEN!!! 


Before age of 2.5- 3 baby thinks that mom is just his part and thinks completely same as baby does! And look what happen at the age of 3? I want this candy/cartoon/name it - and mom just doesn't want to give it to me! But she gave me everything (more or less) ALL MY LIFE!!! So  what's wrong with my mom, why's she get broken??
    And so they become upset.

Now I look at my child and it really seems the way he often thinks about me!!!

WHAT TO DO??

Ok, as always, first thing to do - hug! 





But then (amazing thing that now helps me every day, 10 times a day!!!)
When your baby cries/yell/ behave terrible...

Тhink this words:
HE/SHE IS SMALL. But HOW OLD AM I NOW?

Yes,
That's simple!

Just think it truly, look inside of you and your mood and heart and ask yourself - how old am I now?


And you will be calm, I promise!


Use this magic and stay tuned for more! 




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